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unwanted 

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Stories from those who've been there

 

stories from those who've been there
inside the abortion industry

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stories


Trying to Survive

So Much of Me Died
This Was Not Counseling (from Giving Sorrow Words)

All I Wanted Was My Baby (from Giving Sorrow Words)
Years Later in Nursing School I Realized I Had Been Lied To About Fetal Development

"God, why?" Scared, young faces, just like mine
 

 

inside the industry
 

From The Ex-Abortionists: Why They Quit
Frank Joseph, MD (The Human Life Foundation, 215 Lexington Avenue, New York, New York 10016)
 

 "We were maiming at least one woman a month." ...

"We could have saved Sheryl's life," my mind screamed.
"But he had a date and the margaritas were waiting."

 
Carol Everett and her abortionist partner had what they felt was "the Neiman-Marcus of the abortion industry" in the early 1980s. They had a record of no complications--until they decided to go for the big money by doing late abortions. Operating on one woman who was about twenty- two weeks pregnant, the abortionist perforated her uterus and pulled out the lining of her colon. Instead of calling an ambulance—which could have given the clinic bad publicity—Everett drove the woman to a hospital, where she had a colostomy. The abortionist persuaded a colleague to reverse the colostomy later at no charge; he also arranged for the hospital to write off bills for both surgeries. There was no lawsuit.
 

Another abortionist at an Everett clinic perforated a woman's uterus and also severed her urinary tract. Again Everett drove the woman to a hospital instead of calling an ambulance. "We were maiming at least one woman a month" at one point, she recalled.  read more

 

more quotes 

 

"I was totally unprepared for the pain."
I had more "counseling" when I went to have breast implants than when I went to have an abortion. (At least the plastic surgeon had me fill out a personality and family history questionnaire to determine "suitability" for the procedure.) ...


...There were no warnings of possible risks, i.e. perforated uterus, hemorrhaging, sterility, breast cancer, depression. I was told that an abortion was safer than carrying a child full term. I was totally unprepared for the pain, both physical and emotional, that I would endure." – Anonymous

 

"...I felt this gripping pain -- it hurt so bad that I cried out. The doctor told me "shut up" because there were 'other girls' and the "walls were thin." –Carol St. Amour, in Aborted Women, Silent No More (Carol later died of cervical cancer)

 

Janet’s Story: “I cannot think why the gun did not fire.”
“With quiet deliberation, I took my handgun from under my pillow … I chambered a round, walked into my living room, sat in a chair, put the gun to my head and pulled the trigger. To this day, I cannot think why the gun did not fire … I find it amazing in retrospect, how we can function so well in front of others, while suffering like that.” –Janet, in Forbidden Grief


 

other resources

 

Portraits of Coercion Flyer Quick overview, poignant quotes and facts (flyer)
Forced Abortion In America: A Special Report - 21-pages, (booklet or fact sheet)


Giving Sorrow Words - Women's Stories of Grief After Abortion (book)

Forbidden Grief - (book)

Aborted Women, Silent No More - (book)

Detrimental Effects of Abortion - (medical and research academic reference book)

Help and Healing page guides and resources for pregnancy- or abortion-related issues

 

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