1.   Would you prefer:  

1. an ultimatum   

2. a coerced choice  

3. a forced choice    

4. expert lies     

5. professional negligence

6. medical malpractice      

7. deceptive information presented as fact   

8. misleading information 

9. radical non-support       

10. censored information             

11. physical, emotional and spiritual pain  

12. patronizing counselors      

13. all of the above        

2.   After your ordeal, would you prefer:

1. harsh misjudgment

2. benevolent misjudgment

3. unqualified condemnation

4. pity

5. platitudes

6. "get over it"

7. "you asked for it"

8. politically incorrect grief

9. intense scrutiny from curious bystanders

10. censored information

11. physical, emotional and spiritual pain

12. patronizing counselors

13. all of the above