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For men
Healing
resources, information and articles
"Most of the men I talk to think about the abortion years
after it is over.
They feel sad, they feel curious, they feel a lot of things;
but usually
they have talked to no one about it. It's a taboo."
— Sociologist Arthur Shostak
This page contains articles about abortion's impact on men
and links to resources, plus outreach projects. There is
also helpful information on our
healing page.
Articles & research
Men's stories
Resources for help, healing or further
information
Outreach projects - Father's Day Ad
Special report on men and
abortion
 First
study of how abortion impacts men's relationships
A new study published in the
peer-reviewed journal
Public Health has found that abortion can impact relationships for
both women and men.
read more
Post-abortion trauma in men still overlooked
by Catherine Coyle,
Ph.D.
[More than
thirty] years have passed since the legalization of abortion in the
United States. In those years, numerous studies have documented the
potential negative effects of abortion on women. The effects of abortion
on men however have been largely ignored by both the scientific
community and American society. read
more
An online pilot study to investigate the effects of
abortion on men
by
Catherine Coyle, R.N., Ph.D.
The
internet has changed many aspects of modern culture. It has provided a
rapid means of communication to and from almost anywhere in the world.
The internet has also proven to be a source of vast amounts of
information on a multitude of topics including health, the sciences,
current events, weather, and even humor. Recently, the internet has been
used as a tool by social scientists to engage in online research.
read more
The impact of abortion on men
When
people think about the role of men in abortion, it seems that they
usually think about the stereotype of the man who forces the abortion or
the male who abandons. However, there are many roles the man may have
played in the experience. One man may have been involved in several
abortions, each with a different scenario. The impact on fathers is
mitigated by the role they play in the abortion. They fall into separate
categories.
read more
Men, abortion and suicide
At this
point, there are only a few studies examining the impact of abortion on
men. Counselors who work with men after abortion say that men have
reported a large number of problems that they claim were a direct result
of their abortion experience. read more
Forgotten fathers and their
unforgettable children
by David C. Reardon, Ph.D.
In the early
seventies, Arthur Shostak accompanied his partner to a
well-groomed suburban abortion clinic. They had both agreed
abortion was best. But sitting in the waiting room proved to
be a "bruising experience." By the time he left the clinic,
he was shocked by about how deeply disturbed he had become.
read more
Restoring fatherhood lost
by Warren Williams
Fathers become involved in an
abortion in one of five ways: (1) they encourage or support
the woman to choose abortion; (2) they pressure her to
abort; (3) they abandon her to make the decision alone: (4)
they unsuccessfully oppose the abortion; or (5) they learn
about the abortion only after it has been done.
read more
Men and abortion, grief and healing
by Wayne F. Brauning, M.Div., D.Min
I have a friend whose father
disappeared in Mexico. The loss has been more painful for
him than if his father had died in his arms. How can one
grieve for a father who has simply disappeared? For that
matter, how can one grieve for a child who has simply
"vanished?" read more
Psychologists: APA
deceptive on how abortion adversely affects women and men
Two
prominent psychologists are participating in the second national
conference on the kind of profound grief and regret men can experience
after their involvement in an abortion decision. They said the American
Psychological Association missed the boat in a recent report on
abortion's negative effects.
read more
That Day Ripped My Gut Out
For every woman who has had an abortion a man has been involved.
For me it was two abortions. read
more
One Man's Story
Abortion affects every life it touches . . . and for many,
it hurts. I know. This is my story.
read more
Robert's Testimony (story from a man conceived
in sexual assault)
Growing up I never really wondered who my real father was.
At the age of 14 years old I questioned my mother for the
first time. 'Who is my biological father?" She told me that
he was not worth searching for.
read more
Find more stories at
www.menandabortion.info and
www.fatherfoodforever.org
Note: We will be adding more stories soon. Please check
back to this page.
The following are links to organizations and web sites offering information,
counseling, research and resources on men and abortion.
Inclusion in this list should
not be taken as an endorsement of any group's programs or philosophy. If we have
overlooked resources that should be included, please send an email to
elliotinstitute@gmail.com.
Some crisis pregnancy centers and church-based groups that
offer counseling, Bible studies, or other healing programs for women after
abortion may also have programs for men as well. Look in the Yellow Pages under
"Abortion Alternatives" for groups that might offer such support. For more
information about healing and finding a group that works for you, visit our
healing page.
The web site at
www.menandabortion.info
includes research, articles, personal stories, information and healing resources
for men. It also includes information for counselors and others who provide
post-abortion help to men.
The Fatherhood Forever Foundation at
www.fatherhoodforever.org/index.html is dedicated
to helping men find healing and hope after abortion by
creating awareness that abortion does have an impact on men
and providing encouragement to those seeking help. Lists
resources, including books, articles and healing/support
organizations.
The Men's Abortion Network at
http://www.menandabortion.net/ is a network of
researchers, counselors and others who promote healing and
create awareness of men's abortion experiences. The site
contains helpful articles and links to counseling resources.
A speaker's bureau is also available. Additional resources,
such as books and referrals for help, can be found at
www.lifeissues.org/men/Resources.html.
Rachel's Vineyard post-abortion healing ministry has
information for men on their web site at
www.rachelsvineyard.org/men/index.htm. The group provides support for women
and men struggling after abortion through weekend retreats and email support.
Women or men whose partners have experienced abortion are also invited to attend
the retreats with their partner.
The Abortion Recovery International web site
at
www.abortionrecovery.org lists groups that provide
healing services for men, as well as for other
family members such as grandparents or siblings who have
been affected by abortion.
Ramah
International has a men's page with links to resources
on their web site at
www.ramahinternational.org/for-post-abortive-men.html.
There is also a short page for men whose partners have
experienced abortion at
www.ramahinternational.org/post-abortive-spouse.html.
Entering Canaan Days of Prayer and Renewal for men,
sponsored by Lumina post-abortion healing ministry and the
Franciscan Friars of the Renewal, are held several times a
year in New York City. These retreats are for men who have
been involved in an abortion and/or whose spouse has had an
abortion. For information on upcoming retreats, visit
www.postabortionhelp.org.
The Silent No More Awareness Campaign provides
opportunities for men and women who have been involved in a
past abortion to speak out about their experiences and
advocate for an end to abortion and the damage it causes.
Their focus is on education and raising awareness. For more
information, visit
www.silentnomoreawareness.org.
SaveOne seeks to provide hope for women and men
suffering after abortion. They offer help through group
study, one-on-one help, and answering questions and giving
encouragement through self-study. The Men's Study is
a bible-study based workbook/guide to help men heal after
abortion (a woman's version is also available). For more
information, visit
www.saveone.org.
Abortion Changes You is a website giving
women, men, family members and others involved in an
abortion a safe place to share their experiences in a
confidential and neutral environment. Includes articles,
information and resources on coping with abortion and
resolving the experience, along with links to local support
and counseling groups. For more information, visit
www.abortionchangesyou.com.
For further
information, help and healing
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healing info/tips
help for those facing an unexpected pregnancy
help for women affected by abortion
help for other family members affected by abortion
How You
Can Help in Your Community
Link to our men's page at
www.theunchoice.com/men.htm
on your site or blog. Share articles, research, personal stories and
other information on abortion's impact on men.
Join our
Father's Day Outreach by
downloading, copying and sharing our
Father's Day ad/flyer. Use as an ad, poster or flyer. Can be used as an
insert in newsletters, bulletins and other publications.
A
co-op
version is available to which you can
add information about local resources, events or sponsors.
Speak out and share other
educational materials, based on academic research showing
abortion's human rights abuses and risks to women, children and
families.
Put a link to our
Special Report on Men and Abortion on your web site, blog or social
networking site. Link:
http://www.theunchoice.com/EINews/2010Vol9/Vol9No7.htm
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